I have a question that has been lingering over my mind for quite some time. I am not sure if I would be able to put it in the right words, but a man gotta try, right?
Do you think that there should be any kind of restrictions on married couples when they go out with their friend of the opposite sex? or to put it more aptly would you have a problem with your wife/husband going out with an opposite sex friend for outings like movie, party, etc. more than once? Does that amounts to infidelity even though the relationship between them is of “friends”?
I may sound naïve when I put that out, but I do believe most of the people don’t know how to handle these issues. In a way I am trying to find an answer and a solution too perhaps…
My friend hangs out at times with a married friend of his for movies or simply hanging out. I asked my friend if her husband knows and he replied in affirmative and I kind of find that weird. I think anyone would find it suspicious if their partner starts going out with someone else. I even asked the friend in question if he would be okay with such an arrangement with his future wife and he said no.
I can understand the part where one goes out for some work/meeting after long time but when they go out to “enjoy”, do the meaning changes? or is it because we look it in a way that is considered as “immoral”?
What are your thoughts on this and how a spouse could handle it in a better way? Would like to hear about it.
PS: On a completely different note, I got a Cherry on Top award from Dreamygal which came as a pleasant surprise :)