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January 9, 2011

A Question

I don’t know if you guys remember about my rants about how I hate being in situations where I have to be dependent on others and they don’t even care how it ends up.  Apparently I have fallen in these situations many times and most of the times it has happened out of choice.

It made me think, if there was a reason why I ended up in these situations? Am I suppose to don the superhero’s cape and come out of the situation winning?  In any given situation one needs to know what needs to be done but if one has to depend on a third person (who don’t really make attempts/care of the outcome) to get it done then it’s really tough to come out winning in such situations.

Its’ like you know what you want to do but you cannot exactly do it because you are dependant on other people to take care of that.  I am at my wits end on how one should come out winning in such situations.

Any thoughts to share?


Sh@s said...

A tough question :(
Will answer it when I will get the answer.

Grayquill said...

Sorry, I don't remember.
But a problem well defined is a problem half solved. Some smart person said that so, who knows if its true. I rarely trust a smart person.
Ask yourself the question, what are you getting out of these situations. The answer might surprise you.

V Rakesh said...

The moment you stop worrying about independence and come to terms with the fact that we are interdependent, this problem will be solved!

The Generalist said...

we are always dependent on others or things that are really not in our control.. its just that we dont realise its

The Survivor said...

@ Shas

I hope to hear it :)

@ Grayquill

The answer does surprises me but does not absolves the problem.

The Survivor said...

@ V Rakesh

I don't worry about not being independent but I do worry when others don't carry the same purpose or the desired result.

@ Generalist

Yeah, don't deny that

Winnie the poohi said...

Well we should be more keen on experiencing than winning.. sometimes i think we spend too much time looking at the destination..