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June 2, 2009

A Secret Date

Not exactly a "date" but on the lines. Yesterday. I got a call from my Sister I asking me to come to her house when she will call me again in a few days.

The reason: she wants me to have a look at a girl (who will come to stay at her house for a few days) from her side whom she likes a lot and thinks she would be a perfect choice for me. This happens to be her first choice among the list that she has created for me (Finally, I get to see someone from her list!!). Read the following post to know about the list.

She very well knows my take on girls from native place, not that they are lesser in any ways to girls from city but I don't think they will be able to cope up to the living in a city like Bombay. Sister I wants me to see that they can. The girl also lives in a city (Mangalore to be precise).

I kept listening what she had to say and found it quite amusing. I did not commit on anything. On the other hand she also told me that Sister II also has a proposal ready for me again from the native place that she thinks would be "perfect" for me.

I have not made up my mind, but can't help it to think as you get moving up the age ladder everyone is eager to get you married.

Guess, they cannot see my happiness in living a Happy Single Life.

but then Happiness is not Everything in Life, right?? :D

P.S.: I feel like I have few days (may be a year or two) left of my bachelor hood to live, after marriage everything will come to an end... :))


Chriz said...

good days waiting for you.. if only my sister also invites me with surprises like this, i d be happy too

Anonymous said...

Hmmm. Your post got me thinking.
Looks like you secretly want your secret date but just want to create a fuss and go down after putting up a fight... :)
& Mangalore is a city? Duh! I thought it was a town! Silly me...

The Survivor said...

@ Chriz

Wish you the luck mate

@ Choco

I am not putting up any fight.

You have no idea how many times I kept hearing about the list for so many years now. So its good that I finally get see someone in the list :)

Yeah, its totally changed now, used to be a quite place back then.

Kanupriya said...

:D married life is not that bad u know, has its own advantages too, so ahead 7 chk out the gal which ur sis is proposing;). And its a myth that non-city gals cant adjust in Mumbai. Well, if they want to, they can.

The Survivor said...

@ Keshi

I know, but life is not going to be the same :D

Yeah, I agree.

The Mad Alpha Moggie said...

Hey, non city girls can also take to life in the big cities like a fish to water. I know of girls who comes from little villages inside Tamil Nadu who, after a year in the US, are more american than the americans themselves.. :) :)
Depends on the adaptability levels and how independent a woman is....

Shruti said...

oh so true! ppl dont let u live peacefully once a certain age is reached.
Live life to the fullest before u get arrested into marriage :P

The Survivor said...


I know, my Mom happens to be one of them.

@ Shruti

Welcome to LIFE

That's what I am trying to do.

It's like the clock is ticking..

Winnie the poohi said...

So how did it go ?

The Survivor said...

@ Winnie

I am still waiting for the call :(

Deepali said...

Haha some ends are just beginnings really :)

Well ya I also find it annoying that as you age, more and more family members only keep talking about marriage.

Btw has the meeting already happened or not?

The good thing is that you have at least given your sisters some of your preferences. Hopefully they can actually find someone "perfect" for you

The Survivor said...

@ Deepali

Nopes, that did not happen. The funny thing that I heard that one sister is saying she is very much on the list and the other one is saying she has changed and so she is striked out :))

They will, after all they cannot see me living such a happy single life :D

Deepali said...

Haha so you got saved this one time. Anyway if they are all in it together, it should make things easier :)